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Changing seasons.

Here’s the thing about seasons… they come and go.  They have a beginning and an end.  I’ve known for a little while that my season at Keypoint Church was coming to an end.  I don’t really know how one comes to know these things… but when it happens, you just know.

We’re sad to leave the friends that we’ve made at Keypoint Church; but we’re excited about the new season that we’re starting.  We’ll be leaving Northwest Arkansas at the end of January, and moving to Conway, AR.  I’ve accepted a job at a start up marketing company called Blue Pixel Marketing, where I’ll be a graphic designer.  We’re excited to be able to attend New Life Church, where we have several friends already.

Both Sabrina and I are looking forward to this new chapter in our life.  It is going to be different for me, after working in fulltime ministry for the last 7 years or so … but I’m excited about the new challenges.

To all of our friends at KPC … We love you so much, and our lives will not be the same without you.

On my brain.

1. Too many closed door meetings are bad for morale.
2. Heading to Ohio for the holidays.
3. Static electricity is one of the worst things about winter.
4. I got a 1TB external hard drive for $110.  That’s 1,000,000 MB.
5. Went and saw Monty Python’s Spamalot — awesome!
6. Gonna miss some friends.
7. Happy that I’ll get to see other friends more often.

Navy SEAL Tips to Mental Strength.

Master Chief Will Guild, a 27-year Navy SEAL veteran, mentors incoming SEAL candidates. The six key values he imparts to future special operators apply to any walk of life.

1. Put Teammates First
“This is an exoteric responsibility—that is, ‘imparting to someone else’—and it’s missing from our culture. When you are acting exoterically, you are acting ethically. How do I treat others? How do I fit into the team? What is my responsibility? Ask yourself these questions, no matter your profession.”

2. Second-Guess Yourself
“We all have monkey brains. We think terrible things sometimes. Quitting, abandoning something important to us. But don’t let that disturb you too much, because it happens to everyone. Really, who you are is your second or even third thought.”

3. Allow Yourself to Fear
“Some people become afraid, and they find it overwhelming. When that happens, reach out to family, friends, or colleagues. Fear is a shared experience—you’ll get a lot of energy from the people around you. Being okay with being afraid is the first step to overcoming it.”

4. Control Your Emotions Physically
“Ask a family member or friend to study your posture when you’re happy or content. Then practice it, over and over. Your psyche will follow your body. You can literally control your emotions this way.”

5. Break Big Goals into Small Targets
“How do you eat an elephant? One mouthful at a time. Don’t wake up Monday morning and say, ‘Four days and 16 hours till Friday.’ Instead, wake up and say, ‘Two hours till breakfast.’ And then, ‘Three hours till lunch.’ Try to stay in the present.”

6. Have Faith in Yourself
“This is the most crucial part of mental toughness. It’s something I tell all the SEALs. Have faith that you’ll figure it out. You are a lot stronger physically and mentally than you think you are.”

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One of my favorite things.

My favorite scene from National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation…

To: Dictator

“If you have to tell people that you are the leader … you’re not the leader.”

– John Maxwell